You should never be to old or to tired to have some good ole fashioned FUN. Ladies it is very important not to loose yourself after you have a family. I know I know we wear many hats we have to work, cook, clean, business meetings, church, PTA, charity events and fundraisers, take the kids to school as well as cheer, football, dance, soccer, piano lessons and if you are not to tired at the end of the day have a Candy Coated Moment with your man. Needless to say you must stop and repeat after me "Self it is time to spend a moment alone or with friends if you choose to. Go hang with your girls have a spa day at Glen Ivy, or Brunch at Spaghettini's, a bon fire at the beach, a pajama party and rent a nice suite with room service and all, go clubbing if that is your thing, if you want to do it big plan a trip to Miami or Jamaica, or you can have a quiet evening alone just you a candle lit bubble bath a glass of Cabernet with some sweet jazz playing in the background. Regardless what you choose let loose and have some fun. Do not forget to keep yourself sexy as well. When I say sexy I mean your definition of sexy not television or magazine sexy that is not real. Sexy is a feeling an emotion. For example a new nail color, or hairstyle or some jeans that fit just right on your body. No more complaining about your physical appearance Just be who the Most High Created you to be we are all handcrafted and wonderfully made. Now call your sister friends and get to planning. What are you waiting for put the computer down and go; )